October 31, 2007

Adoption Agency

Adoption agencies act as the link between couples and families seeking to adopt a child and families or couples seeking to place a child in care. Adoption agencies are important entities for these two categories of people since they handle the many legal complexities involved in placements and adoptions.

Adoption agencies work in two ways. The first emphasizes finding babies for the adoptive family, and the second is to find suitable adoptive families for babies put up for adoption. There are also two categories of adoption agencies. First is the increasingly common ?open adoption agency? and the second is the less popular ?traditional adoption agency.? The former type of agency allows the parents/caretakers of the child to meet and interact with the intended adoptive parents. This paves the pathway for the two families to get to know each other better, facilitating a healthy transition for the child. The latter category describes the conventional procedure, where the placement family?s information, as well as the adoptive family?s, are both kept confidential from each other. This has become a less common practice in the U.S.

It is better to work with a licensed adoption agency not only because of the hassle and the legal complexities, but also because individuals can be assured that they are reliable and trustworthy, due to the stringent criteria each agency has to fulfill prior to being granted with a license to operate.

Seeking the services of an adoption agency is a better option for several vital reasons. For instance, they cannot refuse to revisit your case after a placement since they carry the risk of being found liable for dishonest and unethical practices. All licensed agencies must meet minimum standards set by their states. Later, you can voice injustices or unsatisfactory behavior. They should have a well-qualified, trained, and experienced adoption staff from which you can benefit. If there are problems after placement, you can go back to an agency for help. This follow-up is usually offered at no extra cost.

Adoption agencies will also have a greater selection of families and children from which you may select, thus, resulting in the greater possibility of a good match.

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October 18, 2007

Adoption Agency Selection Checklist

It was March of 1996 that the first draft of this checklist was placed online. It has been used by thousands since then and, with the feedback received since 1996, it has been shortened and simplified. There are now 5 questions most easily answered by using the yellow pages, or other agency advertisements such as web pages, and then 11 questions that will probably require a phone call to the agency. There is no difference if you are placing a child you are expecting or if you are wanting to adopt a child into your family. Either way you must select the agency very carefully for the sake of your child.

You must also be concerned as to how the adopting parents of your child, or the birthmother of your child, will be treated by the agency you select. It is a VERY important decision. As you are calling agencies and asking questions about the issues from this checklist, it is very possible that the staff will recognize that you are using this checklist. Do not let that distract you from the critical issues addressed in the checklist. Just acknowledge that you are using the "openadoption.org checklist" and that you want to go over the issues one by one. The issues are infinitely more important than the source of the checklist you are using. The way agency staff treat you, and your concerns, will tell you as much about an agency as the written agency policies.

A PDF copy of the Adoption Agency Selection Checklist for printing can be found at www.openadoption.org/checklst.htm It will print out to one page and have 4 columns to compare multiple agencies. You may then take notes on the printed copy as you study agency advertisements and call agencies. Adoption Agency Selection Checklist  After studying the www.openadoption.org web pages to understand the issues involved, this form can be used to compare four agencies. The more ?Yes? answers to the questions that follow the better an agency is. Few agencies will get ?Yes? answers to all 16 questions, and some questions are more important.

1. Do the agency web site & advertisements make it clear that the agency only does fully open, fully identified adoptions?

2. Is this agency easy to drive to from your home?

3. Do you have a friend who knows or has used this agency and gives it a very high recommendation?

4. Are there other agencies in your local yellow pages who have much larger yellow page ads under the adoption heading?

5. Is the agency a church affiliated agency or is it over 30 years old?

Most of the above questions can be answered from agency web sites, yellow pages, and other advertisements without calling the agency. The questions below will probably require a call to the agency, but count it as extra good if positive answers can be found in agency advertisements. Count it as negative if there is any hesitation by agency staff on the phone in answering these questions.

6. Does the agency encourage maternity client parenting and offer free support and guidance in parenting?

7. Did agency staff accurately define open adoption as involving no secrets between birth and adopting families, and ongoing, direct, in person contact between them?

8. Did agency staff make it clear that they prefer to do fully open adoptions and rarely, if at all, will they serve an adopting family wanting less than a fully open adoption?

9. Does the agency strongly recommend, or even require, several counseling sessions by their staff before a maternity client starts considering the selection of a family for their child?

10. Does the agency always allow maternity clients selecting a family for their child to be able study every waiting family available through the agency for their child, and almost never limits maternity clients to selecting from a few waiting families chosen by agency staff?

11. Does the agency encourage matching between birth and adopting families who live close enough to each other for easy visits?

12. Does the agency have resumes by families adopting that are fully identified, with full names and addresses as well as local phone numbers on them, freely available for the selection process?

13. Does the agency provide a copy of their adopting parent fee agreement with clearly stated policies both about refunds and that donations cannot be accepted during the adoption process?

14. Does the original fee amount also cover all birthmother expenses anticipated with the agency paying any extra expenses?

15. Is agency a member of the Child Welfare League of America?

16. Is the race of the child expected one of the last questions asked?

Total the Number of "Yes" answers and compair.

 

About the Author: Email bbetzen@openadoption.org with any questions or comments. - Bill Betzen LMSW(Emeritus), Child placement social worker for 28 years with ten years spent expanding infant adoption services through open adoption. Active in supporting adoptee rights legislation at both the national and state levels. Adoption information.

 
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December 2, 2007

Ask The Adoption Agency

When making the decision to adopt an infant an adopting couple will come across a number of agencies willing to help them in their cause. Some adoption agencies deal only with International adoption, others only domestic and there are those that will work with all forms of adoption. Choosing the correct adoption agency for your situation is critical to a successful and speedy adoption process.

The scenarios that could affect whether an adoption ends successfully or with heartbreak are endless. It is key, when contacting and visiting adoption agencies, to ask important questions in order to logically select the right company to work with.

What are the costs?

Although, not important in the scheme of the emotions surrounding the adoption of an infant, different families have different resources and some agencies have different fees for different situations. The one caveat to be ware of is hidden fees; some adoption agencies tack on at the end or during the process of adoption.

Ask up front a detailed list of every possible fee the agency might charge or will charge. This way you are aware of what the final agency bill might be, or what adoption options you may want to or not want to choose. Also, obtain information from the agency representative as to when certain fees are expected to be paid. During the process of the adoption, many agencies expect funds at certain stages of the procedure.

It is also important to inquire about refunds. Some adoption agencies have a no refund policy; others will refund monies depending on what stage the adoption is at and others refund most or all of the costs paid.

What is their experience?

The number of adoptions they perform will also prove to be critical to the success of the adoption process. If the adoption agency handles a mind boggling number of adoptions each year they may not be able to provide the quality of support and service one would expect from an agency. Of course, if this is the case and they employ an equally high number of competent associates.

On the flip side of over extending themselves, some adoption agencies do not perform enough adoptions per annum to accrue the kind of experience needed to be able to offer the proper advisement when out of the ordinary circumstances occur. It should be realized, however, that some agencies pride themselves on the fact that even if they do not perform large numbers of adoptions, they provide a higher quality of support.

When discussing the experience of a particular agency, ask for references. Even though privacy is a major concern with most adoptions, there will be a handful of people willing to discuss their experiences with the agency.

What is the average wait time?

For most parents looking to adopt an infant, this is the most important question to ask. Adoptive parents have already made the decision to adopt and sometimes the wait can seem like the most difficult aspect of the entire process.

Most adoption agencies will have this information directly in hand and often take pride in the fact that their wait times are shorter than those of other agencies. However, simply because an agency purports a short waiting period does not mean they are the best adoption agency to deal with.

It is important to not solely base the decision of what adoption agency to choose simply because their wait period is shorter than their competitors. Take into account what steps and procedures each uses, it could be the one agency has a shorter wait time than another because they skip over valuable aspects of the adoption process.

Matt is the owner operator of Infant Adoption Info

 

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November 10, 2007

Choosing The Right Adoption Agency

When you are looking to adopt you should research different adoption agencies very carefully. There are many things to consider in order to help you narrow down to a list of specific adoption agencies. Here are some questions to ask yourself before you being any research:

1. Do you want a domestic adoption (within the United States) or an international adoption?
2. If you do want to adopt internationally which countries would you consider adopting from?
3. Do you want to adopt an infant or older child?
4. Do you want to work with an adoption agency close to your home or anywhere within the United States?
5. How will you finance your adoption?
6. How soon do you want to adopt?
7. Which races are you willing to adopt? (Caucasian, Asian, African American, etc.)
8. Do you want a boy or girl?
9. Do you have any special circumstances? (single-parent, gay couple, older couple, etc.)
10. Do you know anyone who has adopted before?

Once you ask yourself these questions you can develop a list of adoption agencies that you can request information from. Most adoption agencies will send you an information packet free of charge about their adoption services. Research on the internet and write down agencies that you feel can meet your needs. Once you have at least ten ask them to send you an information packet. Review the packets and throw away the ones that you do not like. With the remaining agencies call them and ask more questions about their services, how they operate, and other common questions.

Finally choose an adoption agency. Once you have chosen an agency double check with the state licensing department and ensure that they are in good standing. You may also want to check with your local BBB to see if any complaints have been filed against them. Finally ask the agency for some references of previous adoptive parents that you can talk to personally. Once they have ?passed the test? you can start filling out the paperwork to adopt a child.

 

About the Author:

Eric Morgan owns an adoption agencies website. You can visit it to find a list of adoption agencies that may fit your needs.

 

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October 23, 2007

Finding the Right Adoption Agency

 

Adoption services and agencies are one of the most remarkable services in the world, because of the emotions involved. These are places where families who have been longing for years to have a child of their own are matched with children who have been orphaned by circumstances and in need of what they can call a family of their own. Adoption services have brought so much relief and happiness to an untold number of people worldwide. Adopting a child is always a joyful thing to both the adoptive parents and the adopted child but it's not all roses. The adoption process can also be a frustrating and confusing experience; therefore, it is always very important to make the right choice of adoption agency. There are several things that should be considered before deciding that an adoption agency is good enough for you.

Adoption agencies are usually licensed by the state authority and are subjected to rigorous inspections and regulations, which are carried out periodically, to ensure optimum services. Most agencies have staff scattered in different countries of the world who are on the agency's regular payroll. These staff members are required to aid international adoption. Such an arrangement is better than hiring individuals who only work in cooperation with the agency. An agency with international staff strength is bound to be more effective. This an important question to ask when dealing with an adoption agency, especially one that claims to be international in operation.

Another thing to consider when going in search of an adoption service is your budget. The whole process make a hole in your pocket, especially when you are not so buoyant financially. Depending on your pocket, your choice of service could vary. For those with a large budget, a private sector agency would be the best option. These agencies would help you research potential children available for adoption based on your criteria, however, the limitation to the use of such service is the price involved. Most families will not be able to afford such services in addition to adoption fees, travel costs, and other costs associated with adopting a child. A more budget-friendly option is the not-for-profit sources and social service agencies.

Nevertheless, whatever your budget and choice of adoption service, before opting for an adoption service, you will have to consider what you know about the agency. Where are they located and what service would they provide to you? Are they affiliated with government agencies, healthcare services or churches? The more that you know about the service, the better you can be prepared. To get first hand information on whatever service you want to use, you may have to first contact your state's licensing office to see if the agency's license is up to date. The Better Business Bureau (BBB) would be a good place to see if the agency has had any serious case files against it. You could also surf the Internet and make contacts with individuals who have used this particular agency's service in the past and hear what they think of it. You will find several chat rooms and news bulletin board that allow such communication and contacts.

Alternatively, you could request a list of previous clients from the agency itself, arrange to meet them and hear what they think of the agency and how satisfied they were with their service. No information is too much to protect you from the heartbreak that accompanies a failed adoption attempt.

In addition, an adoption agency should not mind telling you how they operate. You need to know what process they follow in connecting you with the baby you want to adopt. You have to know how the children and parents are selected and what you need to do to be qualified for the service. You also need to know what the agency does for legal matters. How involved do they want to be, legally? For instance, what happens when the birth mother decides to change her mind? Will the adoption agency handle the legal paperwork for you, or are they going to leave you to your fate. You have to know the roles of the birth parents in the whole process, to avoid interference from them when the adoption process is over. You deserve privacy and freedom with your adopted child, just like any other parent. You will also have to know where the babies are coming from and how they were gotten; to be sure it's completely legal.

You will need this, and much more information, to choose the right adoption service and to ensure that you will be getting an excellent service and a flawless and joyful adoption experienc

About the Author

Michael Russell
Your Independent guide to Adoption

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